Etiquette
Etiquette refers to how you treat others in a specific fisting scenario. There are three etiquette guidelines related to gloves.
Etiquette Explained
Who: Top
When: Throughout Session
What: Lubrication Application
Group: Lubrication
As a top, it is best to adopt a "No Questions Asked" policy regarding lube application. This means, if the bottom asks for more lube, go ahead and add it.
Keep in mind the following:
- Virgin and novice fisting tops are often adollopers. They rely on previous dick-in-ass experiences in reference to lube usage. That is to say, they apply enough lube for fucking, but not for fisting.
- Hirsute men (those very hairy, god-like men) require additional lube, especially if their hair is coarse. A bottom can feel the hair, and it may be agitating or pleasurable. Excess lube can address this issue.
- While the skin on the inside of the hole lacks neurons that can detect moisture, the outside of the hole can detect it, so it is helpful to apply lube to the ass lips and perianal area, so that the bottom mentally detects application. Applying lube to the hand only may leave the bottom with the impression that you didn't apply enough lube.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 2.1: Furry Arms
Additional coatings of lube may reduce agitation with coarse, furry arms.
He stuck out his arm to hold the elevator for me. It was furry as fuck, and my cock stirred a little. I thought to myself, if only he were gay, a fister, and had that arm up inside me. The doors closed and I pressed 3.
We both got off at the same floor and made our way down the corridor. "Was he headed the same place I was?" I thought. "If only I be so lucky." At the end of the corridor, we both turned the same direction. As we approached the door, I decided to speak up.
"You must be Brody?" I asked.
"And you Finn. I've heard about your hole from Brad" he responded and followed up with "I can't wait to get my arm into you!"
We knocked on the door, entered, and promptly undressed.
"You think you can handle my hairy arm?"
"Have you ever scrubbed lube off your elbow?" I replied.
"That deep, eh? Truth is, I haven't been that deep. It's gonna be a bitch to wash out this fur—but well worth it."
I hopped in the spare sling, and he applied lube to his hand and wrist.
"I'm deep within seconds, apply a little higher." I requested.
"Got it!" he said, spreading lube to his mid-forearm.
"You're gonna need it a little higher with that first push."
He somewhat reluctantly added more lube to just short of his elbow and said, "Let's do this!"
His small hand slid in with ease and his eyes bulged as his arm kept disappearing. I felt the moment we crossed the event horizon—the non-lubricated skin just shy of the elbow. He pulled back and indicated he would reapply, but much higher.
"Just keep going as is. I've been fantasizing about that furry pit at my hole's edge since the elevator." I grunted. I could feel each dry hair, tickling my ass lips as he sunk deeper, and the feeling was magnificent.
Sadly, we didn't make it past the upper bicep even after recoating, but it was a glorious experience being ravaged by a furry bastard.
— FF Chronicles: 20.07.0466
Etiquette Explained
Who: Top
When: In Group Sessions
What: Lubrication Cleanup
Group: Lubrication
In group play, tops should practice good hygiene and wash hands (and pricks) thoroughly between bottoms. This prevents the spread of STIs such as Gonorrhea, Hepatitis C, Shigella, and HPV. If using lipid- or PEO-based lubrication, three to five minutes of hand washing is necessary.
If engaging multi-bottom activities such as chariot fisting, double-decker fisting, and fisty-nine plus one, validate with bottoms their contamination protocols. Acquire consent to forego handwashing in these activities.
Anecdotal Narrative
Figure 2.2: Spreading Shigella
Shigella adheres easily to lube and can remain alive outside for several weeks, so transmission between bottoms is likely if correct hygiene practices are not followed.
Eric mistakenly grabbed an old bottle of lube from the fridge as he rushed out the door to a Friday night fist party.
Unfortunately, the lube had been colonized by Shigella, and Eric reported symptoms within 24 hours. Even though he was vigilant about not sharing lube, he was unsure if all the guests washed hands thoroughly between bottoms.
To be safe, the party organizers alerted the attendees, and everyone monitored for symptoms.
— FF Chronicles: 19.03.0426